The Good Girl

Some people just attract others. Whether it's animal instinct or charm... my coworker/friend has that je-ne-sais-quoi that draws people in from afar. She's pretty new to the dating world, considering she's been in serious relationships her whole adult life. But, let me tell you, she's wasting no time and now handling men with a finesse that we should all admire!

We'll call her The Good Girl (you'll understand why later in the story). You might actually remember her, I told the story of her first random dating experience a few months ago, and trust me, this one is just as spontaneous ;)

Text Msging Foreplay

Ok so i'm texting and chatting with this guy i met on Zoosk. He seems pretty cool. He's been surprisingly supportive when i was very very sad this weekend. He handed out some good advice that made me smile, and touched my heart in a very mini little way ;)

Don't worry friends, i'm not head over heals for an internet guy i've never met!

He is however cute and funny and smart and AVAILABLE (that being the KEY word).
His, not-so-great points... he's a nurse (aka busy... like my ex), finishing up his school (so VERY busy), and lives in the South Shore (which to me is like a foreign land!).

But honestly, those aren't deal-breakers, and i haven't even met him for a date yet, so no judgment or happy-skips until then! I'll keep you updated, but as our relationship develops it's fun to think of all the new things to discover...

One of those fun things being SEXTING : aka the art of flirting over text message. I'm sure my sexy ladies out there are all familiar with that! You might have even heard the term CHEXTING : cheating over text! I have quite alot to say about THAT subject! But i won't get started! lol


There's an article I read explaining the REASONS you SHOULD SEXT ur lovers ;) it's very interesting ;) And i agree with every their points. So i suggest everyone to try some sexting tonight! hehe ... however, it may not be the right thing to start doing before you meet someone in person! aka my situation at the moment! lol But the beginning of a relationship can be super sexy with the use of technology we have ;)

Also, for a fun read (and for any guys reading!), here's an article teaching guys in particular how to SEXT properly—it's quite amusing ;)

Happy texting girls xo

Hey It's Ok...

...to take everything off before stepping on the scales — underwear, jewelery, even your hairband.

...if you've never had phone sex, cybersex, text sex or anything but sex sex.

...to wear sexy underthings for YOURSELF instead of a guy.

...to think that playing hard to get is ridiculous and dishonest, but do it anyway.

...to say that you were late to meet a friend because of “work deadlines” when, actually, it was an emergency bikini wax.

...to think that the solution for dying batteries is pressing harder on the remote.

...if you don't belong to an online “community”. You've got plenty of real ones thanks.

...or that you actually LIVE and BREATHE your online “community”. Sometimes they feel more real than the tangible ones.

...if you don't own expensive sheets, a vibrator, or your home.

SOURCE: ROXY & GLAMOUR MAGAZINE

Valentine's TOP 10 : A Sexier 2010!

Top 10 : Roxy's SEXUAL Wishlist for This Valentine's “New Year” ;)
inspired by GlamourList January 2010

1. Hot guys. Talented men. And real Vampires. i said this is a wishlist!

2. Makeup sex, minus the fight.

3. Flattering lighting!

4. Lingerie worthy of the hot stuff you're putting in it!

5. Sexting

6. Insanely romantic handwritten love letters.

7. Having every one of your EXs want you back! And YOU being too sexy to say yes. (ok, one quickie might be ok)

8. Romance. It just makes the sex THAT much hotter!

9. So many orgasms in one night that you lose count...

10 .. or just one so great you can't possibly find the energy for another.

Happy Valetine's Day my sexy ladies!