Their New Site Makes Me Blush

My favorite lingerie designer, BLUSH, just revamped their website!
Check it out: BLUSHLINGERIE.com
♥♥♥ I'm in love with their Spring12 collection. ♥♥♥

Holiday Xmas Party 2011

I can't believe it's already my Holiday Office Xmas party tonight! I've been so sick for the past 2.5 weeks that i hardly had time to prep, or find an outfit! I'm throwing something together for tonight (Michael Kors top and pencil skirt); we'll see if it works out!
This year won't be as dramatic and crazy as previous years (ahem click here for past horror stories!), but it'll still be tons of fun!
I'll be uploading some pics during the evening over Twitter, so be prepared for some sexy colleagues of mine ;)
♥ Roxy

Goodbye 29!

Today is my last day of my twenties. 

I'm going to smile at every guy i see, wear a flirty outfit and my sexiest shoes. Gonna milk these twenties while i still can! I hope my thirties will be as fabulous as my twenties!!!
Be prepared for my big DIRTY THIRTY update at the end of the weekend! Hopefully i will be sober enough to write!! xx

Trick or Treat

So we all know that Halloween is all about candies when you're a kid, and about sex when you're a big kid ;) hehe

It's every shy girl's excuse to get sexed up and totally rock an outfit she would never normally wear.

For me, this year, just like last year ( do u remember that fun?! Tiger Woods anyone!!! Lol) I will be a sexy vampire ;) I spent so much $$ on the costume last year, that I have to at least get 2 wears out of it! Plus, it is uber hot. Only down side is that I will be at a 1 year old's birthday/Halloween party this year... So it might be a little TOO sexy... Oh well, I'll rock it anyway. Here's a preview:

I tried to convince the BF to be Stefan from Vampire Diaries, but he didn't like that idea... oh well I can pretend!! Haha

Happy Halloween my sexy readers! If u have pics of your sexy Halloween costumes, please share!! I would love to see!

Ms Independent

I was trying to think how to write a blog post that would interest my readers. You all know that i don't go on dates anymore. Well, i do, but they are always with the same guy :) Which is awesome: as per my last blog post. No more random date with internet weirdos, no more meeting men in the most random spots! I'm not “riding solo” anymore.

At the beginning of Roxy's era, a year ago, i promised that i wouldn't discuss relationships. Not past ones, and not current ones. Relationships are hard enough to keep balanced without having someone blogging about how the other one pissed them off! LOL BUT… it seems i'm in a predicament because i want to keep writing and people want to keep reading… so… no worries, i will figure this out ;)

So, with no further ado, let's review the first topic of the week, something that's on my mind….

How do you go from being that awesome self-reliant-independent-chic that your friends love, to a heart-throb cool-as-fuck-girlfriend that he can fall in love with?

NYC baby!

I'm off to NYC — NOT for a wedding, NOT for a bachelorette, NOT for a baby shower, NOT for an engagement party OR EVEN to celebrate someone's wedding anniversary...

We're 5 girls and we're going to NYC to celebrate my great friend S's 30th birthday!!

GO CRAZY OH BABY! We're celebrating how AWESOME it is to turn 30 and be successful without husbands or babies!! 

Reservations at a boutique hotel, road trip with our own car, drinks on hand, high heels, cute dresses, and reservations at NYC's hottest spots! Maybe we'll even party with the Downtown Girls while we're there! SO EXCITING! I think I need this weekend more than S does ;)


P.S I will be TRYING to take a “mini-vacation” from my phone, so we'll see how that goes ;) but there might be surprise updates as we go!! 

I ♥ Blush

One of my loves in the fashion industry is lingerie ♥
As you already know, it just so happens that one of my great childhood friends became an amazingly talented lingerie designer (for Blush Lingerie). I support her at fashion shows, and am so proud when i see Rihanna wearing her designs!!! But this year, for my bday, I was extra surprised when she gave me lingerie that was named after “moi”!

How hot is that?! Everyone who's anyone has lingerie designed for them! xo thx S  

The Good Girl

Some people just attract others. Whether it's animal instinct or charm... my coworker/friend has that je-ne-sais-quoi that draws people in from afar. She's pretty new to the dating world, considering she's been in serious relationships her whole adult life. But, let me tell you, she's wasting no time and now handling men with a finesse that we should all admire!

We'll call her The Good Girl (you'll understand why later in the story). You might actually remember her, I told the story of her first random dating experience a few months ago, and trust me, this one is just as spontaneous ;)

Sephora is oh-so Sexy!

Can't wait to head to Sephora to pick up some of their newest fall arrivals! check it out! soo sexy! I heart Kat Von D's makeup already and now she has a new collection: Adora!  Plus, I want one of those studded makeup bags too!!



find all these treats @ www.sephora.com

What do you find most attractive in a man emotionally? physically?

ooo i like this question. hehe let's talk MEN girls!!! ;)

Ok let's start with the physical...

Men with ARMS kill me! Those strong arm muscles that can hold you just melt my heart. Especially when there are tattoos involved! But i think that goes without saying!! hhehe

The second physical trait on my list is EYES. I love when you can look into a guy's eyes and see his sensitivity, even though he may look tough and unphased on the outside. Love love love that! Feels like you can see his secret...

Ok, so emotional “hotness” — i find that's when a guy can talk about his feelings. When he can be honest. When he can entice ME to talk about MY emotions (which we all know is tough for me). When he can help ME deal with emotions by talking it out instead of shutting down and/or walking away.
I'm trying my best to be a good communicator in all my current relationships (with my guy, my girls & my work) because it's the key to ANY successful relationship. But it's hard. And for me, if i'm around people who ask questions and invite me to talk, i will be a better person.

What do you guys find physically and emotionally attractive? In men or women! I'd like to know! I'll be reading your comments below!

— Roxy xo

Ask me anything

sex-a-licious

how can a girl NOT want this lingerie? WOW she's hot.

Agent Provocateur - "Love Me Tender" in HD from Greg Williams on Vimeo.

Rob ♥ i'm still in love

Drool.... i have to admit, i am still in L♥VE. I like Robert Pattinson even better in this photoshoot than in the Twilight movies. I think he'll have to be my Inspiration of The Week this week! Eclipse is coming soon!

... if love doesn't work out for me... well, at least i can read about him...  

Photo thx to Nathaniel Goldberg via TimeMagazineOnline

Crazy Busy Beautiful

Crazy Busy Beautiful — aren't we all?! lol
It's the NEW makeup tips book by the sexy Carmindy from TLC's What Not to Wear! I want this book! My bday's in June peeps!! I just don't know if i can hold off until then..... ;)
Click HERE to read reviews and buy it!
LMK how you like it if you get it!!

HEY it's OK

…to cyber stalk your EX , and not tell your friends about it! (but i swear friends i've never done this!)
…to call your landlord with a problem, like: “my hallway lightbulb needs changing”
…to quickly edit your medicine cabinet before people come over.
…to take a night in and read a book instead of going out searching for Mr.Right !
…to dance super sexy for your own reflection!
…to cry when things don't go your way.
…to call your mom to make plans.
…to not know how you'll ever buy a home of your own in this economy...
…but still have faith that one day you WILL
…to eat KD. Often.
…on a tired Friday night, to accidentally tip the chinese delivery guy 8$…on a 12$ meal.


Did you miss last month's HEY IT'S OK? click here

Text Msging Foreplay

Ok so i'm texting and chatting with this guy i met on Zoosk. He seems pretty cool. He's been surprisingly supportive when i was very very sad this weekend. He handed out some good advice that made me smile, and touched my heart in a very mini little way ;)

Don't worry friends, i'm not head over heals for an internet guy i've never met!

He is however cute and funny and smart and AVAILABLE (that being the KEY word).
His, not-so-great points... he's a nurse (aka busy... like my ex), finishing up his school (so VERY busy), and lives in the South Shore (which to me is like a foreign land!).

But honestly, those aren't deal-breakers, and i haven't even met him for a date yet, so no judgment or happy-skips until then! I'll keep you updated, but as our relationship develops it's fun to think of all the new things to discover...

One of those fun things being SEXTING : aka the art of flirting over text message. I'm sure my sexy ladies out there are all familiar with that! You might have even heard the term CHEXTING : cheating over text! I have quite alot to say about THAT subject! But i won't get started! lol


There's an article I read explaining the REASONS you SHOULD SEXT ur lovers ;) it's very interesting ;) And i agree with every their points. So i suggest everyone to try some sexting tonight! hehe ... however, it may not be the right thing to start doing before you meet someone in person! aka my situation at the moment! lol But the beginning of a relationship can be super sexy with the use of technology we have ;)

Also, for a fun read (and for any guys reading!), here's an article teaching guys in particular how to SEXT properly—it's quite amusing ;)

Happy texting girls xo

My Sexy Zara Lovelies

FINALLY! Here are my new Spring shoes from Zara!! All at the same time now: 

“ooooooooo”

Check out ALL my new Spring purchases!

A Crystallized Twist on The LBD!

The hottest LBDs you can find! Plus a VERY interesting way of shooting black on black, all while making it look seductive and sexy! Plus it's for a great cause!


“ ... in Paris Crystallized (Swavorski Elements) debuted a project that was commissioned one year ago to 22 of the fashion industries leading designers. Each designer was asked to design a little black dress which would will be auctioned at Phillips de Pury & Co., in New York, in September of this year. All the proceeds will go towards American Cancer Society and La ligue nationale contre le cancer in France, as well as a profits from the book, “Ways to Say Black”.”
See all the dresses here


Here are MY fave::
(hmmm anyone want to donate a little black designer dress to Roxy for one of my hot dates?!! )

Valentine's TOP 10 : A Sexier 2010!

Top 10 : Roxy's SEXUAL Wishlist for This Valentine's “New Year” ;)
inspired by GlamourList January 2010

1. Hot guys. Talented men. And real Vampires. i said this is a wishlist!

2. Makeup sex, minus the fight.

3. Flattering lighting!

4. Lingerie worthy of the hot stuff you're putting in it!

5. Sexting

6. Insanely romantic handwritten love letters.

7. Having every one of your EXs want you back! And YOU being too sexy to say yes. (ok, one quickie might be ok)

8. Romance. It just makes the sex THAT much hotter!

9. So many orgasms in one night that you lose count...

10 .. or just one so great you can't possibly find the energy for another.

Happy Valetine's Day my sexy ladies!

Fabulous Fashion Show

Tonight is going to be an uber sexy night.

I'm going to a fabulous fashion show at Time Supper Club with my sexy Blush Lingerie designer . It pays off knowing the VIP crowd ;) Stay tuned for pics and updates on Twitter.

LOVE NYC

How can you not love it? NYC, ♥love♥ and typography :)