10 ways to feel positive when the man you love walks away...

1. Spring is around the corner (even though you would never think so with all the snow today...)
2. There is always ONE friend on any given night that needs a drink just as badly as you do
3. Your heart’s been broken before and you got over it. So, the comfort in knowing that this too shall pass.
4. Knowing deep down that he will miss you sometimes. Even if it is just for the amazing sex (he is a guy after all).
5. Thinking of all the next “firsts” that are to come for you... first flirts... first dates... first kisses... first butterflies... first nights ;)
6. Knowing that you’re one step closer to finding someone who can give you what you want... someone who will want to share their life with you...
7. Extra reason to look hot when you go out on Saturday nights, or when you go to the grocery store!
8. Nights at home just means that you’re getting your money’s worth of your mattress you bought 6 months ago and your new flatscreen TV.
9. Knowing that the guy who will eventually love you is out there feeling miserable without you, and in a terrible relationship right now!
10. And finally, realizing that your life is already full of love: from friends, family and your godson’s sweet kisses.

Have you ever hooked up with an ex AFTER the break-up? Were you able to still stay friendly after the break up and hook up?

HAHA good question : yes, i have hooked up with an EX after the break-up. This dates back to a while ago now though...

And anyway, doesn't that always happen when you break-up? LMAO 

About if you can stay friendly... that really depends on the situation and what you had invested. But I would say, most times: YES. But, don't forget, ALL the reasons you broke up are STILL THERE, so usually nothing productive can ever come of this “encounter”. Except a little pleasure for the parties involved ;)
— Roxy xo

Ask me anything

I've Answered ur Questions (even the weird ones)!

So , i've been a busy bee this morning, including answering some of your most interesting questions on Formspring. lol I didn't want the questions to show up as tons of blog posts, so if ur interested, you can see the answers to your questions here.

Some of the questions I have answered to date are:
• What is the riskiest (or kinkiest!) place I've ever had sex?
• If you could change one thing about myself physically, what would it be?
• Am i ticklish?
• What do I find most attractive in a man emotionally? mentally?physically?
• How important is it for me to have my friends like my boyfriend and vice versa?
...AND MORE!

CHECK OUT all my answers and ask me anything you like anonymously!! Have a great weekend chicas! I'm having a weekend of partying and pampering for my friends wedding. xo

sex-a-licious

how can a girl NOT want this lingerie? WOW she's hot.

Agent Provocateur - "Love Me Tender" in HD from Greg Williams on Vimeo.

SUCCESS!

UPDATE! My A/C works! My “Installation Date” was a success! My “date” installed the old A/C my friends gave me from their garage. I was elated! And was prepared to take him out for supper and a movie to thank him. But he was too “tired” to even stay... He said he wouldn't be good company in the state he was in and could we take a raincheck? I said “sure” of course. I was just thrilled that he still had come by to help me out!

Turns out, he wasn't after any booty at all! Maybe he is, actually, a good guy...

You wouldn't have been able to convince me of THAT last year. Do you remember him? He was my first official blog post because i was soooo in TABARNAQUE against him! Read that post to find out what had pissed me off so much! 
I have to say tho, since then, we've taken a loooong no-talking break, after months we started chatting on MSN again, and now we go to the movies from time to time. And i was honestly shocked that he wanted to help me with this A/C... I thought he must have other motives.

After all that though, i think my lack of feelings for him is pretty clear. I'm pleased that he was just coming over to help me, and expected nothing in return.

At least i know i'm not interested, and he can simply be a guy friend!
On that note, I also want to give a shoutout to my best guy friend, BRUCE, who came all the way out here to help me last Tuesday night. He's the one who did the installation of the first A/C (that we didn't know was broken). Thx JB! Ur the best! xo And also thx to A who gave me this A/C from her garage!  I owe all you guys!

xo kisses

Girl on Girl

I was inspired to write this, from my new favorite show: Downtown Girls (MTV) Episode 3 baby! Watch it!

I think all girls in the dating scene get so fed up at times that we think maybe we should be giving a chance to our same sex partners : the girls.

Girl on girl is a very peculiar subject. Most know that i have quite vast knowledge of this subject since i have lived with 4 lesbians (2 couples) in a small apartment in the city, 2 yrs ago. One bathroom, one kitchen, 5 girls. You get to know your roomates very well. I love these girls like sisters (well actually one of them is my sister) and still hangout with most of them regularly.

Alejandro.

OH MY. Lady GaGa does it again. I don't even know what to say.  Loved this song when i heard it on her album.  Just don't know if i love the video... yet. ;) What do you think?
One things for sure, there's a few dance sequences that would be awesome for people to re-enact at the clubs! xo

Butterflies

So things are quits w/ me and The Frenchie. Communication is a huge issue for me, and now i know it is for him too. Him and I seem to have floated through the past few weeks without really talking about what we wanted and how we felt about anything... I guess i thought it was too soon to have a serious talk, but now i'm thinking that maybe, if it's the right person, it's never too soon ...

We finally had that talk this weekend.
He simply stated that he doesn't have butterflies.

"Hmmmm.... so, did you discover that before or after we slept together for the like tenth time?" Which was only 30 mins ago by the way. Jerk.

But, hey it's ok. Moving on. More fish in the sea, right? (i know, i hate that expression too...)
Anyway, I'm not sure how many butterflies I even had. I won't deny that I had a few floating around (aka the Wow post!), but i had my doubts that HE was "the one". He did make a great effort though, and did a good job of wooing me. Not many guys do that, so i don't believe that he meant me any harm. We're both just trying to find love in this crazy city! We both deserve butterflies! So many in fact, that you can't see straight!!

I don't know what you think, but I think i'm gonna take a break from this dating scene for a while! Concentrate on being an amazing friend and auntie to all my friends and their kids! They're the ones who deserve all my love anyway xo
P.S. my bday in 11 days and counting ;) kisses!

I'm The Overthinking Queen!

I could hardly concentrate on blogging the last few days because of the crazy hockey games going on!! Hockey is taking over my life! LOL
 
So , yes, updates :: date #3 with The Frenchie.  Psssst if you haven’t read the first few dates, catch up here.
Not sure what to say about our last date... I was left feeling a bit disappointed, but I think I’m just being a loser. I wasn't disappointed with him: he’s still floating my boat, but more related to my expectations of the evening. I think this is a common thing that most girls go through... And most likely something that guys don’t question at all! Lol I guess, for us girls, we start expecting things to go the way we’ve experienced them in the past, and the moment they don’t, we start questioning everything.

Like for instance; last night. I cooked supper and he liked it (or was polite enough to say he did!), we talked while I cooked, we laughed, we had wine, we ate and laughed at random stupid TV shows, and then by 10 he had to go (he works early). He kissed me at the end of the evening, and he didn’t really linger. 

Maybe I’m just feeling raging teenage-like hormones, but I wanted more than just a kiss... 

and i was left wondering if i had done something to cause him to leave, or if simply he wasn't interested in me anymore. Truth is: most likely he WAS tired, needed to get home and had enough respect to not 'make-out and run'!

I guess with girls, NOTHING can ever be the way we want : if he’s too into us: he’s clingy; if he’s too touchy-feely: he ONLY wants sex; if he’s being respectful: he’s not that into me!

So, here's a NEW dating tip that applies to me and many many women out there :: STOP over-thinking things! It was a good date, I like him, he likes me, and he was a gentleman : point final. We’ll get our groove on some other time! Lol

SEX

Hey It's Ok...

...to take everything off before stepping on the scales — underwear, jewelery, even your hairband.

...if you've never had phone sex, cybersex, text sex or anything but sex sex.

...to wear sexy underthings for YOURSELF instead of a guy.

...to think that playing hard to get is ridiculous and dishonest, but do it anyway.

...to say that you were late to meet a friend because of “work deadlines” when, actually, it was an emergency bikini wax.

...to think that the solution for dying batteries is pressing harder on the remote.

...if you don't belong to an online “community”. You've got plenty of real ones thanks.

...or that you actually LIVE and BREATHE your online “community”. Sometimes they feel more real than the tangible ones.

...if you don't own expensive sheets, a vibrator, or your home.

SOURCE: ROXY & GLAMOUR MAGAZINE

Valentine's TOP 10 : A Sexier 2010!

Top 10 : Roxy's SEXUAL Wishlist for This Valentine's “New Year” ;)
inspired by GlamourList January 2010

1. Hot guys. Talented men. And real Vampires. i said this is a wishlist!

2. Makeup sex, minus the fight.

3. Flattering lighting!

4. Lingerie worthy of the hot stuff you're putting in it!

5. Sexting

6. Insanely romantic handwritten love letters.

7. Having every one of your EXs want you back! And YOU being too sexy to say yes. (ok, one quickie might be ok)

8. Romance. It just makes the sex THAT much hotter!

9. So many orgasms in one night that you lose count...

10 .. or just one so great you can't possibly find the energy for another.

Happy Valetine's Day my sexy ladies!

TOP 25 Places to Have Sex in America!

Ok , so i'm a little disturbed by an article i just read on www.yourtango.com... the article is called:

Top 25 Places To Have Sex In America

A new book offers suggestions for where to get it on.

From ROXY

This article gives a condensed list of their favorite places from the new book: 1,001 Best Places To Have Sex In America: A When, Where, and How Guide

I'm not disturbed because i'm a prude or anything... i'm actually kind of proud i can mentally tick off a few of these places myself. What bothers me is, who's REALLY having sex in these places? I certainly have not seen anyone having sex in their car while waiting for the drive-thru at Wendy's!!!! Thank god! I don't think the site of that would give me much appetite, especially the “American version” of that!
Also, “high up in a tree”?! Are American's all of a sudden very acrobatic? Not from what the media portrays anyway...hmmm. That seems very challenging, and that's coming from me: the cheerleader!
So, without any further ado, here are the TOP 25 PLACES TO HAVE SEX IN AMERICA (with my commentary! ) :

How many can YOU tick off? ;)

1) In the Shower (blah blah)

2) On the Shore of a Beautiful Secluded Lake (... just bring a blanket people)

3) In the Locker Room at the Gym (really?! are YOUR locker rooms co-ed? i would not want to see that... unless it's the hot physical trainer... )

4) In the Highest Row of a Concert

5) In the Dark Corner of a Hookah Lounge (don't know what a HOOKAH Lounge is, but i've seen some ppl do the nasty in a nightclub... i might even have been looking in a mirror! lol. sshhh)

6) While You're Out Test-Driving a New Car (what?! that's gross!! Other people drive those cars too ppl!)

7) On the Balcony of Your Hotel Room hot ;)

8) At a Public Library Between the Stacks of Books

9) In the Parking Lot of Your Local Police Precinct (as long as you don't scream too loud!)

10) High Up in a Tree (i guess Americans are all of a sudden very acrobatic...)

11) While Waiting in Line at a Fast-Food Drive Through (obviously the drivethru is not very “fast”, or the guys are record holders!)

12) On a Ferris Wheel at Night

13) On the Teacher's Desk (extra points if YOU'RE the teacher! lol)

14) While Handcuffed to Your Bed At Home

15) In a Huge Lecture Hall During a Lecture (beats passing notes i guess! lol)

16) In a Cemetery on a Dark, Foggy Night (whoa i think i'd be too scared!)

17) In the Stairwell of Your Office Building (sorry Andrew, lol)

18) In a Tent on a Camping Trip (just remember that EVERYONE else CAN hear. Everything.)

19) On a Bearskin Rug by the Fire

20) At the Lincoln Memorial (weird.)

21) In the Confessional (they've been watching too much Californiacation)

22) In the Loft of a Barn Full of Hay (with Clark Kent?)

23) At Your Team's Stadium (the Bell Center's a bit cold, but i'm sure ppl have made it happen ;)

24) At a Sex Museum (didn't know that existed! )

25) Climax, CO (just CHEESY.)

If you want to read the yourtango article for yourself, click here.

Avatar Sex Scene Cut!

You gotta love PerezHilton. I just read this on his blog :) too funny -- enjoy!

“Here's something for all you sci-fi nerds to geek out over.

Avatar's leading lady Zoe Saldana has revealed that there was steamy sex scene that James Cameron scrapped from the film in order to protect his PG-13 rating.

Like the guy could have done without a few hundred million dollars!

Zoe says "It was a very funny scene to shoot because there were so many technical things that sometimes you have to keep in mind that paying attention to all those might disrupt the fluidity of how a scene is supposed to take place.”

But don't worry, you can watch all the blue on blue action over and over again when the DVD gets released.

Think the Avatar fellas get blue balls?

[Image via WENN.]”

Read More: Perez Hilton: Avatar Sex Scene Cut! http://perezhilton.com/2010-01-07-avatar-sex-scene-cut#ixzz0bzIB2WFb
Celebrity Juice, Not from Concentrate

Things NOT to say in bed!

Hilarious! 15 things a girl NEVER wants to hear in bed!

MEN = take notes!!

http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/things_to_not_say_in_bed/index.php

From ROXY

The Dominican Dance

Recently, i took a trip to Punta Cana, my friend and I decided we had been work-a-holics for too long without taking a well-deserved break. We booked 2 weeks before leaving at an amazing 5-star Spa & Suites Resort. We crammed in tons of work in those 2 weeks, packed our bags the day before, and then, poof! were gone before we knew it.

From ROXY

My friend and I have many complicated boy issues here at home... so our main focus was to relax, drink cocktails on the beach, get an awesome tan and forget about the men of Montreal! I'm happy to say that we managed to reach all these goals while away!

One great distraction were the Dominican men... some were good looking , some were built, but mostly they just made us laugh!!! Now, i'm not trying to be mean, because some of them were nice guys... but cmon' all single girls who have gone down south know that Resort Animators only think of one thing: sex.sex.sex.

My friend and I were definitely up for a good time, but not the same good time these guys were looking for. Let me describe :: The Dominican Dance.

At the disco, all tourists, animators and locals gather to let loose and dance. Since dancing is one of my favorite things, i tore up the dance floor quite a few nights during our stay ;) After a few nights, my friend and i got quite annoyed of the way Dominican guys approach us on the dancefloor.

It starts off with them looking at you from across the room: this is the foreplay. By the time they've got to you, they think they're on second base... You, however, are just thinking: “Oh No, who is this loser walking towards me?”.
Then there's maybe one or two dance steps before they literally take your hips and start thrusting! From behind or in front... doesn't matter. They even do it from the side! I wish i could show you a video of how it looks: your body is being thrown back and forth in a shocking manner!

The first night at the disco, this guy called Mosquito, one of our hotel animators, who was super flirty with me, danced with me this way. I pushed him off repeatedly until he left me alone. He came back minutes later with an important question:

did i like men?

My friend and I laughed our ass off! I just kept thinking that my sister would be so proud of me! In Mosquito's mind, if i didn't like his fabulous-thrusting-dance-moves, i was most certainly gay! Needless to say, Mosquito got stung, and his ego was too bruised to to even talk to me for the rest of the trip... LOSER

Here are a few of the Dominican Stars we met on our trip!

From ROXY

By the end of the week, my friend and i were quite content to come home to our regular messed up men-of-montreal, who actually have the decency of dancing with us on the dancefloor!